Love how I see it(part one)

I'm gonna start off by saying that I call it Love How I See It because there is no absolute definite answer to love. If there was, then everybody, or at least most people would find their love with their partner.

First, I say that HONESTY is the key to EVERYTHING. You have to accept honesty for yourself before you can expect it from anybody else. Otherwise, you are gonna think that everybody is lying to you all the time, when in reality, you don't even know what the truth looks like. If you want your partner to put everything on the line, you have to do so to.

Now that you got the honesty thing done, you have to be honest with yourself and GET OVER THE PAST!!! The past is what made you, but it should be what made you better, not bitter. You can not build a future if you are still stuck on the past. How do you expect a person to treat you good and do good for you if you don't even give them a chance because of what people in your past have done? There are too many instances where good people just don't get a chance, because of what the last person has done to you. Or you expect this new person to heal your heart. Nobody can heal your heart but YOU. You have to take that time to yourself to look at everything and heal your own heart.

The two main elements in a path of love is MIND AND HEART. You must use your mind and heart when dealing with love. I see too many people only use one of the elements and always get burned in the end. If you only use your mind, you will think way to hard about situations and your mind will not lead you in the right directions. You will think things that are not true. Love and your only your mind is a bad combination. Love and your heart alone is an even worst combo. Your hear alone will lead you into something blindly. you will let yourself get run over because of this blindness. Your heart will have no sense of direction or protection. SO you effectively need both your mind and heart. Your heart needs your mind so it can be lead in the right direction. Your mind needs your heart so it can be leveled and you can tell whats real. Use these both at all times. Know when to push one more, and pull back one a little bit. But never one completely over the other one.

Last but not least(for this blog entry). GET YOUR MIND RIGHT!!! Maybe this should've been first, but all of this is a process anyway. I don't really know wheather this is at the beginning of the process, along the way, or at the end, but it is the most important part of the process. If your mind is not clear in life and love, you will never be successful. If your mind is not right, you are gonna do everything wrong. The worst part of that is everything you are doing wrong, you are gonna thing that it's right, no matter what is in front of you, what people tell you, or what life show to you.

Like I said, I'm no expert, but I think if more people followed this, we would all be more successful in love. Give it a try you never know what good can come out of this. And be on the lookout for part two!!! Peace Queens and Kings!!!!

Cutting People out of my life!!!???!!!

This is for the people in my personal life. Not business related
So, I have been known to not keep people around for long. Over the years, I have had the rather easy tendacy to stop dealing with a lot of people. Most of the time, it is because of something that someone did to me, or how they treated me, or what they said to me. A lot of those times, they were wrong for what they did. Is this the problem, or is the problem something else?

Now everything that was stated here thus far is true, but did I really need to cut off all of these people? Did I really give everybody a fair chance? This is the question that I ask myself. Now that I think back, YES some of those people truly disserved to be left alone and out of my life. But some others, I might have acted too soon. So since we are all so good at listing the offenses of others, LET ME LIST MY OFFENSES!!!

Probably the number one mistake is that I have the tendecy to not let other people make mistakes. This is wrong of me because I am not allowing these people to be a human.

I have cut ties with friends for having the wrong opinion about me. Instead of taking on the difficult but eventually every helpful task of getting to know that person better and letting them get to know me better, I have just simply cut many of these people off.

I have cut some people really quick for what I saw as trying to change me. This has been the quickest cut.


Those are a few of the main notable examples. But I look back these days and wish that I didn't cut off many of these people. More times than not, I let a minor thing or two ruin some friendsips, some potential relationships.

SO, what I have been working on these days is addressing issues with people, instead of shooting them down, or just running away from the issue. Dealing with it head on may be a difficult thing to do, but it is something that I must learn to do gracefully. I must expect these people to be themselves and accept them as that, just as I want them to do with me. There has even been some that I ignored when they tried to fix our friendship.

So with all of that being said, here is the time for me to do something else I don't do often. THIS IS MY APOLOGY FOR THE ONES THAT I REALLY CARED ABOUT AND THEY REALLY CARED ABOUT ME. And if you did something to me, I forive you. Some of you will read this because of how our relationship was. If if we had a good standing with each other, I am hopeful that we can get it back to how it was. Work things out. BE INDIVIDUALS!!!

-TWISTED STOREEZ