Love how I see it(part one)

I'm gonna start off by saying that I call it Love How I See It because there is no absolute definite answer to love. If there was, then everybody, or at least most people would find their love with their partner.

First, I say that HONESTY is the key to EVERYTHING. You have to accept honesty for yourself before you can expect it from anybody else. Otherwise, you are gonna think that everybody is lying to you all the time, when in reality, you don't even know what the truth looks like. If you want your partner to put everything on the line, you have to do so to.

Now that you got the honesty thing done, you have to be honest with yourself and GET OVER THE PAST!!! The past is what made you, but it should be what made you better, not bitter. You can not build a future if you are still stuck on the past. How do you expect a person to treat you good and do good for you if you don't even give them a chance because of what people in your past have done? There are too many instances where good people just don't get a chance, because of what the last person has done to you. Or you expect this new person to heal your heart. Nobody can heal your heart but YOU. You have to take that time to yourself to look at everything and heal your own heart.

The two main elements in a path of love is MIND AND HEART. You must use your mind and heart when dealing with love. I see too many people only use one of the elements and always get burned in the end. If you only use your mind, you will think way to hard about situations and your mind will not lead you in the right directions. You will think things that are not true. Love and your only your mind is a bad combination. Love and your heart alone is an even worst combo. Your hear alone will lead you into something blindly. you will let yourself get run over because of this blindness. Your heart will have no sense of direction or protection. SO you effectively need both your mind and heart. Your heart needs your mind so it can be lead in the right direction. Your mind needs your heart so it can be leveled and you can tell whats real. Use these both at all times. Know when to push one more, and pull back one a little bit. But never one completely over the other one.

Last but not least(for this blog entry). GET YOUR MIND RIGHT!!! Maybe this should've been first, but all of this is a process anyway. I don't really know wheather this is at the beginning of the process, along the way, or at the end, but it is the most important part of the process. If your mind is not clear in life and love, you will never be successful. If your mind is not right, you are gonna do everything wrong. The worst part of that is everything you are doing wrong, you are gonna thing that it's right, no matter what is in front of you, what people tell you, or what life show to you.

Like I said, I'm no expert, but I think if more people followed this, we would all be more successful in love. Give it a try you never know what good can come out of this. And be on the lookout for part two!!! Peace Queens and Kings!!!!